Thanks Movieman,
The first two things I sold were $56 and $51 being a new seller holding my money. No big deal I understand why they do it.
I got you on the reserve money just the account that is attached is one I don't use very much. Put money in it to pay bills online and such. So if transfer the shipping cost from my other account then pay for shipping would have taken to long... Sorry I don't trust banks have been burned to many times. Love my current bank and they are great but I don't trust that lovely NSF crap. My shipping for the first two items was $30 total.. Thanks so much for the advise on the $3.00 put that in and it helped. Of course the smaller item lost about $7.00 on it but sure beets $40. Did not put the $3.00 in it.
I do the round up the change in my checking account.. My husband calls it cushion money.
"The only complaint I have ever had with eBay is when they took away the seller's ability to leave negative for a buyer (that happened a couple of years ago.)" I will agree to that no protection to sellers.
Shipped all today total cost was $44 I charged $35.50. The small one got me. Lady at the post office was very helpful. So as long as my buyers are happy I will be on my way as an ebay seller.
I put a set of copper pans on ebay thank goodness they did not sell did not have the shipping right. I am going to sit on them a while and re list later once I get some feedback.