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« on: May 03, 2013, 02:58:23 PM »
I was going to ask the regulars out there if you found the atmosphere to be similar to the auction shows on tv. They can get down right nasty and even fight. They dont seem to like newbies. I totally understand if the newbie is as you described, but if the person has similar intentions as the serious buyers, you shouldnt be treated like an enemy. We have the right to be there too and everyone has to start somewhere. My first experience was pretty cool, and easy. It introduced me to what the auctions are all about. Not bragging but I think I am a natural and very respectful of others. I am a business woman and started my own charity, so I can get out there and fight with the best. My second auction experience was not quite as enjoyable. I learned a lot. I brought my brother with me to learn the auction business with me. He was going to help me with my charity. I wanted to show him how it goes. I had a limit and promised I wouldnt go over it. When it came to bidding time, I had a show down with this guy. He was not only a serious buyer, but a territorial one and I got the feeling he didnt like the fact that I was a girl. Everyone other than the two of us stopped bidding around $300. It was the only unit of the day, and this guy really wanted it. My intention was only to bid a little bit and show my brother. This guy was so nasty to me, for no reason, that it turned into a war. I was going to run him up if my life depended on it. I ran him up to $800 for a tiny little unit (although packed). I didn't think it was worth the money, but I got caught up not only in the excitement of bidding (not much willpower to stop) but in the war with this douche bag. He was so pissed when I finally pulled out. I had to run out of there cuz I thought he was going to kill me. I would have been so screwed if I got stuck with it. Not only did it cost more than I had on me, but I had nowhere to put the stuff. I gotta tell you though, I earned a lot of respect that day. When I first got there I could tell by the looks I got that they didn't think I could hang with them. Went to another auction after that one and same people were there and they were staring at me and whispering to each other. They were coming up to me and making conversation, asking me for tips. It was only the third auction! I love it and happy to find others who do as well, and take it serious.