Well, got mad respect for you movieman, I would have told the women to save her tears and move on.
Well, believe me it wasn't all trying to give her a break. Part of it was trying to benefit me; here's how.
1) I don't usually deal with big furniture unless I have to; wanted her to move it but pay me for the chance to do so.
2) If she came through on first payment (or even on 2nd) and then bailed out, I would have had the money AND
the goods !
In regard to point 2, this happened once on an eBay sale.
I sold a guy a nice pair of Peavy spkrs (local pickup). He was in southern CA. I think he paid $500 for them with his eBay bid. He couldn't seem to get up north to me in the 2 week time frame we set up, so I told him to send me $100 via
PayPal as a deposit for my continued holding them for him. He did that. More time went buy (maybe 3 weeks). I told him to send me another $200 for holding purposes. He did that.
More time went by (maybe another 2 or 3 weeks) and I told him that if he couldn't get them by a certain date I would no longer store them for him. All this was done through eBay email so there was a nice SOLID record of the dealing with his emails being saved along with mine by eBay.
He didn't come through by required date and I kept his $300 I had collected and I kept the speakers. Relisted them on eBay for local pickup. I think I got $300 for them the second time around and THAT guy picked them up in a week and gave me cash on pickup.
Overall worked out well for me and the speakers were in my permanent locker stacked on each other so weren't that much of a storage problem.